MACS Matters November 2011

Posted on November 29, 2011

It is not who is right, it is what is right.

 

In light of recent egregious violations of public trust at major Universities like Penn State and Syracuse, I’ve been asked to share some guidelines for handling a difficult situation in the area of public trust.

All matters of inappropriate behavior from those in our ministry must be dealt with in light of not who is right but rather what is right.  The founder of Bob Jones University said “It is never right to do wrong in order to get a chance to do right.” And, “the two most powerful words in the English language are the little words do right.”  You know what the right thing to do is.  So do it.

Penn State knew that Joe Paterno was a legend in every aspect of the college football world and highly respected.  Conservatively, some estimate that he personally brought over 100 million dollars to Penn State.  By account, he was a man of rank and stature.  Interestingly enough none of that mattered once Penn State realized the scandal was not about assistant Coach Jerry Sandusky or Head Coach Joe Paterno, but Penn State.  What would the officials do with the information (however incomplete or accurate) they had and everybody was learning as the scandal unfolded.  All of this without the benefit of a trial, court transcripts or witnesses under oath.  They were dealing with accusations.  Momentarily, Penn State tried to offer a reasoned, logical and official statement.  I’m sure that to them it seemed like a good idea at the time.

Once the scandal went viral and every social networking site had access any further attempt to reason away or delay the inevitable was ham-handed at best.  The internet has taken scandal from word of mouth into world of mouth.  These cases of abuse and inappropriate behavior are being tried in the court of public opinion before a shred of evidence is ever offered in real court rooms.  Sadly, this is our present reality.  So we can continue to deny the reality or come up with a plan to deal with a real and present crises.

Legal counsel will remind us that we minister in loco parentis that is in place of and on behalf of the parents acting in the best interests of the child.

As such we must remove the perpetrator and neutralize the threat to the children in our care.  We must be circumspect in our associations of faculty and staff no matter who they are or who we think they are.  At this point, it doesn’t matter.  You must think of the whole ministry and if you are going to have a ministry going forward, you must distance yourself from the perpetrator and his actions.

In the case of Penn State there are tens of thousands of alumni with Penn State diplomas on display in their offices.  The parchment went from a matter of some pride to an indictment.  For a long time from now you will be hard-pressed to find that person who doesn’t associate Penn State, Joe Paterno and Jerry Sandusky with the child abuse scandal.  All of that was accomplished without an indictment, a trial, jury selection, testimony, or verdict.  It happened in the court of public opinion.

As we confront any situation like this, realize the alleged perpetrator thinks of himself as above the rules that apply to everyone else.  In this aspect they are either arrogant or ignorant, either one of which should be grounds for dismissal without remorse.  A good definition of humility is knowing your place in line because  you don’t have to be first always, or seen always or in front always.  A humble person is content to say, “follow me as I follow Christ, He must increase, I must decrease.”  Truly, it really is not about you, but the greater cause we represent.

So if you encounter a similar situation, do not defend or condemn the alleged perpetrator. Immediately remove the accused from contact with your young people. As soon as possible call authorities, if they have not already been contacted, and seek professional legal advice. Let’s set the standard for all of our ministries that we will not try to defend the indefensible.

2 Responses to “MACS Matters November 2011”

  1. Paul E. Heaton
    Nov 30, 2011

    Bro. Tim,

    You are SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO correct. The trouble is that the “4th Estate” is the one who finds them guilty before we even get all the fact. – Oh, who’s the 4th estate – why the news media – those above all of us, who do no wrong or if they do it is a protected “wrong” and we don’t ever hear much of it. So, that said, I learned many years ago that there are TWO sides to every story and while that doesn’t make the wrong right it might shed a lot more light than most are willing to look into. We WANT the big guy to be the bad guy (Stock Market protests) because we don’t like the money they are making, etc. Now we have Syracuse and who knows who or what is next. Dr. Ruckman said many years ago sex, money and wine are the three things that will damn America and just check it out and see if that is not the very case. I’m sorry for these people, not because they got caught, but because they got involve in such a wicked thing. That is not an accusation just and “observation” consider how much truth has REALLY been put forth. God help us brother for there is no one who can. Toss out prayer, the Bible and God and just tell me what you have left. Trouble is that one can be accused and there can be NO truth in it (I’ve seen it happen) and yet the damage is done. (How about Kildee(s)?)

    Thanks for the observation and the wise words.


  2. Kevin McAlvey
    Dec 01, 2011

    In reference to your comment about the alleged person thinking he is above the law, I’m reminded of what CS Lewis said about pride and thinking you are above the rules or other people:

    “In God you come up against something which is in every respect immeasurably superior to yourself. Unless you know God as that – and, therefore, know yourself as nothing in comparison – you do not know God at all. As long as you are proud you cannot know God. A proud man is always looking down on things and people: and, of course, as long as you are looking down, you cannot see something that is above you.”



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